What elder care and legal help cost

By Can I Afford It · How we calculate this

These are often the hardest costs to plan for, because they tend to arrive when you need them rather than when you have saved for them. Long-term care in particular is a recurring cost that can run for years.

Up-front costs here run from about $375 (power of attorney) to $400,000 (reverse mortgage). Recurring costs run from about $30 a month (medical alert system) to $9,000 a month (nursing home).

Typical national prices, not quotes. Financed payments are principal and interest at each item's usual down payment, rate and term, before tax, fees and insurance. 5 of these have a full calculator; any of them can be checked against your income.

ItemTypical costPer month
Adult day care$1,800/mo$1,800/moCheck it
Assisted living$4,500/mo$4,500/moCalculator
Cemetery plot$2,000One-timeCalculator
Conservatorship$5,000One-timeCheck it
Continuing care retirement community$350,000One-timeCheck it
Elder care$5,000/mo$5,000/moCheck it
Estate plan$2,500One-timeCheck it
Family caregiving$2,500/mo$2,500/moCheck it
Geriatric care manager$400/mo$400/moCheck it
Grandchild$900/mo$900/moCheck it
Home health aide$4,500/mo$4,500/moCheck it
Hospice care$200/mo$200/moCheck it
In-home caregiver$2,300/mo$2,300/moCheck it
Legal fees$3,000One-timeCheck it
Living trust$2,000One-timeCalculator
Long-term care insurance$250/mo$250/moCheck it
Medical alert system$30/mo$30/moCheck it
Memory care$6,200/mo$6,200/moCheck it
Nursing home$9,000/mo$9,000/moCalculator
Paid family caregiver agreement$2,000/mo$2,000/moCheck it
Parent support$600/mo$600/moCheck it
Power of attorney$375One-timeCheck it
Probate$8,000One-timeCheck it
Reverse mortgage$400,000$4,930/mo financedCheck it
Special needs trust$3,000One-timeCheck it
Will$600One-timeCalculator